Father’s Day stirs up all kinds of feelings. For some, it’s backyard barbecues, crayon-scribbled cards, and bear hugs. For others, it’s more complicated — maybe it’s a reminder of someone who wasn’t there, or of a relationship that didn’t quite live up to what it should have been.

Whatever your experience, one truth stands out: fatherhood isn’t just about DNA or being around on holidays. It’s about showing up — really showing up — in the everyday moments that shape a child’s world.

In a life that often feels chaotic and overbooked, there’s something truly powerful about a dad who makes time. It shows up in small, steady ways: reading the same book for the hundredth time, fixing a bike chain, talking through a tough day, or simply being that steady, reassuring voice in the background.

Kids with strong, supportive father figures — whether it’s a biological dad, stepdad, grandparent, uncle, mentor, or someone they’ve chosen to call family — thrive. They tend to be more confident, more grounded, and better prepared to take on life’s ups and downs. Why? Because they’ve experienced love that shows up, listens, and sticks around.

And fatherhood changes the dads too. Being a present parent isn’t always easy — it stretches you, pushes you, and teaches you. But it also brings the kind of joy and meaning that can’t be bought. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being there — through the wins, the mistakes, the everyday mess.

Now, let’s be real: a dad’s presence matters in a big way. Kids are more likely to do well when they’ve got a dad (or a dad figure) in their corner. When fathers are missing, families often face bigger challenges — emotionally, academically, even financially.

For example, U.S. Census numbers show that 65% of single-mother households live below the poverty line, compared to 24% of two-parent households. That can mean less access to things like quality schools, healthcare, or after-school activities. Kids from father-absent homes are also more likely to struggle in school or face emotional and behavioral issues.

None of this is meant to knock single parents — many of them are absolute superheroes, doing it all and then some. But the data is clear: kids benefit when more caring adults are actively involved in their lives.

So if you’re one of the dads (or stepdads or grandpas or uncles or “bonus dads”) who shows up — thank you. You’re making more of a difference than you probably realize. Your time, your attention, your steady presence — it all adds up in a big way.

And if Father’s Day is hard for you — for any reason — that’s OK too. Not all families look the same, and sometimes the strongest bonds come from choice, not genetics.

This Father’s Day, let’s celebrate more than just a title. Let’s celebrate the guys who are in it for the long haul — the ones who put in the work, show the love, and keep showing up, even when it’s not easy.

Because in the end, fatherhood isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present.

And of course — Happy Father’s Day to one of the best. I may be biased, but anyone who’s watched Steve in full “Dad mode” knows he’s one of the good ones. Happy Father’s Day, handsome. Kiddo and I love you!